- You can always tell when someone is authentic and when they’re insincere.
- Sometimes you are totally unaware of your surroundings; your outer world can be in complete chaos, but you don’t notice until someone or something finally attracts your attention. (ex. a loud crash)
- If there are feelings of sadness, anxiety, or anger in the room, you can immediately feel it—no matter how large the room. (or how great a number of people)
- When talking to people, you can immediately see past what they’re saying, and discern what they mean.
- Hidden agendas are rarely (or never) hidden from you.
- Both praise and criticism affect you the same way; you become embarrassed by the unsought attention.
- It’s easy for you to uncover the insecurities and weaknesses of other people, and you can play on them whenever you feel attacked or cornered.
- When you like someone, you become attached instantly and scare them off. (This occurs more in romantic relationships than friendships)
- When someone betrays you, you forgive easily but are perfectly fine with never speaking to them again. (And you usually don’t)
- Sometimes you withhold your true feelings and opinions from someone because you want to ‘protect’ them.
- You hate conflict, and avoid it at all costs.
- You comfortably slip into the role of mediator when others are in conflict because you can easily empathize with both sides. (See previous)
- Once you’ve identified someone as insincere, it is difficult for you to take anything they say seriously—and you usually avoid talking to them altogether because their superficiality is off-putting.
- You’re an open book. If you like someone, they know it; if you don’t like someone, they know it.
- It is difficult for you to hide your feelings, and you spend a lot of time biting your tongue when something or someone upsets you. (Thankfully, that changes as you get older and your less dominant functions develop; by then you’ve gotten over your need to please others and will speak up when something is wrong)
- You’re overly concerned with how you appear to others and what they think of you. (Again, this changes when introverted thinking becomes more pronounced—you won’t care at all then.)
- You’re more idealistic than realistic.
- Silence is rarely uncomfortable to you.
- You feel the need to “fix” every-one’s problems.
- You place your needs aside to help others, and they are more than happy to take advantage of that.
- If you are a spiritual person, you notice that your intuition becomes stronger as you grow spiritually.
- You’re excellent at making observations about others that they didn’t think anyone else noticed. (The usual response is dead silence)
- Complete strangers confide their deepest secrets to you because you ‘seem like a nice person’ and you listen without judgment.